I am married to a doctor for one year now. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times.
Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. Anyways, good luck, I hope it works out. I can't complain about the first 24yrs. Not the end of the world. But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. He is still in residency. You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for.
It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. Toxic is the right word. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. Start doing little things even when you are not there. I couldn't stop thinking about it all day after reading it. I excused canceling plans, seeing each other only once a week, not being able to text much, etc. I could go on, but this should give you the idea.
But we'd like to have children soon, so I'm looking forward to reading through the archives of your blog to see how you've made it work. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world. I would need to ask my husband again. To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start. Apps At Your Fingertips. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since.