Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. So if we only have a few hours of time to spend together one night a week, sometimes we will have plans to watch a movie but then things quickly turn into sex and before we know it the night is over. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. Or is this pretty standard behavior for a busy person in his position Just a heads up from someone in the medical field, the experience of residency will own them until the end of it. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate.
The sad part is that he does not understand what I go through or if I complain or try to make him understand about what's going on at home or my feelings. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. Love does a lot. That's the difference - marrying for love vs marrying for a paycheck. We had lots of sex and fun. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult. Is there hope for us. Think about what you want in a relationship.
It is difficult to learn to have no expectations towards him, even though our mindset towards medicine is the same. I have just found this blog recently that makes me know that I am not alone. Almost everything is complicated. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions. God knows the big picture.
Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. If I'm serving tables at a restaurant, I'm going to tell my boss that she's got to cover for me because there's an emergency and I'm leaving.
