That one I haven't asked him about yet though since I feel like it would be a little presumptuous and might seem like I'm rushing things commitment-wise. On top of this we are going to have our first child on April 12th and I feel very alone. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife. I can see how it would be easy to think wow, I'm not even worth 3 minutes of conversation and I don't want you to feel that way. But daytime game is the key. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. In a few months, he will begin working, and his first few years will be demanding what else is new. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder.
She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. I have seen love prevail over beliefs. Certainly not my husband.
Pay for the first few dates. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. I get it; I just don't buy into it. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. They want a man who has navigated the stormy seas of the world, who has just a little bit of history, and has overcome the degenerate worldly culture, a man who has discovered for himself where peace and happiness lie. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS.
Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night.