When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. And I learned how freeing that is. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. I would need to ask my husband again.
I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for. It's a foolish dream I suppose. It will be up to you, her man, to support the positive expectations.
I dated non mormon men. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. It's been really, really hard for my fiancee, and I don't think he would be my fiancee if I was this busy when we had met.
Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. Can anyone suggest specific talking points from content on LDS. Im sooooo happy i've found this blog!!. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. If it's the latter then you may need to be more direct and take initiative. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief.
