Takeaway: Safe and pleasurable anal play is all about following a few key rules. Anal sex can be a little frightening for straight guys - at least, at first. That doesn't mean they aren't interested, though.

Does Anal Sex Hurt?
The solution? Only use toys designed for anal play
Dildos are the ultimate do-it-your-own-way sex toy. Which isn't to say that they are toys limited by the human form. Indeed, one of the wonders of dildos is that they come in shapes and sizes no human does. With all these options, you'd think that they would come with instruction manuals. But they don't. Luckily, we've written one for you. Pick a shape or even color that turns you off and you may find it hard to get into using the toy. You always need to use a personal lubricant with any sex toy for penetration. Water-based lubricants are good for almost everyone.
Why do toys get sucked inside the bum?
Maybe you have been experimenting with your fingers, or have finally plucked up the courage to explore anal play after supressing your desires for a while. If you are a beginner to using an anal dildo, there are some things you need to know to fully benefit from this special sex toy. Beginning your anal sex experimentation can be easier without distractions, so using an anal dildo during solo play allows you to explore and be able to find out what feels good, whilst only thinking about your own pleasure. Anal dildo use is also a good way to explore anal penetration in order to see if you would like to try anal sex with a partner. Read on to find out what you need to know before putting this foreign object into your anus:. You are probably aware that good quality lubricant is important and helpful for use with all sex toys, but it is especially vital when using anal dildos, as the anus and rectum can tear, and the lubricant makes penetration easier, and more comfortable. Be sure to use a lubricant that is compatible with the material of the dildo and with condoms.
By safely, we mean only using toys specifically designed for anal play no random household objects or vegetables, please , lubing up, and taking it slow. So read on. The muscles around the anus are designed to clench. You know, to keep your poo moving along correctly and ensure nothing drops out unexpectedly. Regular dildos and vibrators designed for vaginal use tend to be straight and narrow, meaning that they can easily get stuck inside when used anally. Sex toy expert Eve Fifer, of Ann Summers, told metro. So no cucumbers, non-anal vibrators, or lightbulbs. Just butt plugs and toys designed for bum fun. There are lubes specifically designed for anal mostly with cooling, numbing effects , but most water-based lubes will do the trick.